It is a stroke of good fortune to find a good victim, who is worth seducing. Most people rush ahead, become engaged or do other stupid things, and in turn of the hand, everything is over, and they know neither what they have won nor lost – Søren Aabye Kierkegaard(1813-1855)
Seducers prefer to pick the odds by avoiding those who cannot be moved. Seducers realize that they cannot seduce everyone, so they go towards people who betray some vulnerability, by developing an ability to move people in the direction they want them to go.
Victim
- Test the person first
- Once the seducer feels that the victim is vulnerable then hunting can begin
- There should be little tension
- Full of erotic potential
- Slightly dislike or fear
- Recognize by the way they respond
- Conscious Responses – Pay less attention
- Unconscious Responses – Pay greater attention – Blush / Flash of anger/ resentment/ Shyness / Involuntary mirroring of gestures
No one is so brave that he is not disturbed by something unexpected. Julius Caesar (100-44 BC)
Chaos – Where brilliant dreams are born. THE I CHANG, CHINA
The New Prude
- Secretly oppressed by correctness and long to transgress
- Excessively concerned with appearances – with what society considers appropriate and acceptable
- Deep down reality – actually excited and intrigued by guilty and transgressive pleasures
- Fear of society – stay within boundaries of correctness
- Excellent and rewarding victims
- Seduction – Give them the chance to criticize you or even reform
- Take nothing they say to heart
To cross the sea without heaven’s knowledge, one had to move openly over the sea but act as if one did not intend to cross it. Each military manoeuvre has two aspects: the superficial move and the underlying purpose. By concealing both, one can take the enemy completely by surprise… [If] it is highly unlikely that the enemy can be kept ignorant of one’s action, one can sometimes play tricks right under its nose. THE WILES OF WAR, ANCIENT CHINA