Everything in daily life is hurried and seducers know how to offer something different – without timidity or mercy.
Love is a game, and I am its master. – Søren Kierkegaard
Seduction
- A process with an initial phase of stirring the interest of the ‘Seduction Victim’
- Slowly separate the ‘victim’ from their world
- Fill their mind with thoughts of you
- Mystery is the lifeblood – to maintain you have to constantly surprise, shock and stir
- Each tactic is a setup for the next one – bolder and more violent
- Should never settle into a comfortable routine
- Cannot proceed until you slowly put their anxieties to sleep and fill the ‘victim’ mind with thoughts of you
- Because people’s thoughts tend to revolve around their daily concerns and insecurities
- At all costs resist the temptation to hurry to the climax or improvise
In seduction, confidence is key. Søren Kierkegaard
Seduction Victim:
- Mirror Values – Indulge moods and wants with charm and delight
- Live in their own world
- Resistant – First win their friendship
- Slow and insidious
- Bored – Approach them dramatically
- Fascinate with a mysterious presence
- Appear as an object of desire – seeing to be fought over by others
- Intrigued then transformed to desire
- Preceded by feelings of emptiness – lacking romance and adventure
- Subtly planting ideas – hints of pleasures that await
A seducer must always remain a mystery, never revealing his true intentions. – Søren Kierkegaard